tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post7429861859353390924..comments2023-05-14T07:49:56.478-06:00Comments on Lea's Corner: Tolerance- Fantasy vs RealityLeahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-17170128741673779492013-02-26T23:52:03.078-07:002013-02-26T23:52:03.078-07:00@Kaelah, I don't like the options of skipping ...@Kaelah, I don't like the options of skipping it, but those are good points. Thanks!<br /><br />@Bea, I know, right? Lol. Thanks for reading!<br /><br />@kiwi, Fortunately S doesn't mind one way or the other. He is really good about matching it to what I can handle. And you're not alone either!Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-41197895484848496002013-02-26T00:36:16.698-07:002013-02-26T00:36:16.698-07:00this is one of my worst faults - my changing toler...this is one of my worst faults - my changing tolerance to pain. I have all these fantasies in my head about bending over our stool and taking whatever Sir wants to give me and it just doenst happen...because I cant take it, but the next week I can take more. Last year i was able to take some hell beatings - now? No way. It frustrates the hell out of sir and makes him very annoyed with me. If you find the solution - let me know. But i think it tends to be hormones, the length of time between spankings, all sorts of things really...but dont be too hard on yourself....you are not alone, and i dont think its anything to feel too bad about :)kiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-21408188353489210642013-02-25T21:13:45.133-07:002013-02-25T21:13:45.133-07:00I was way more impressed with you during the fanta...I was way more impressed with you during the fantasy spanking;)<br />BeaBeahttp://en.gravatar.com/mybeahindnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-42559024732208172902013-02-24T09:34:39.128-07:002013-02-24T09:34:39.128-07:00I think my fantasies usually involve much harsher ...I think my fantasies usually involve much harsher spankings than the ones I normally enjoy for real. My tolerance also varies. I think it is lower when I am, for instance, tired, in a bad mood or having a cold. Sometimes a longer warm-up and longer breaks between strokes can help, but I guess sometimes reducing the severity or postponing the spanking altogether are the only possible ways of dealing with a low pain tolerance.<br /><br />Congratulations on having been Chrossed! :-)Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-10985782134377131322013-02-23T19:22:31.431-07:002013-02-23T19:22:31.431-07:00I just discovered that this post was Chrossed. Woo...I just discovered that this post was Chrossed. Woohoo!Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-79335096045958830722013-02-23T17:43:47.402-07:002013-02-23T17:43:47.402-07:00@joey, It sucks when that happens, doesn't it?...@joey, It sucks when that happens, doesn't it? Before the weekend I'll have to try to build a tolerance prior to even getting there.<br /><br />@Erica, It can certainly be annoying. I'm sure those who don't get spanked as frequently as we do have even more issue with this.<br /><br />@Todd and Suzy, Being spanked on a cold or wet bottom can definitely be harder to handle! Adjusting for the moment at hand is good advice.<br />Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-85001637194701594862013-02-23T14:48:34.306-07:002013-02-23T14:48:34.306-07:00We just did some spanking play out in the snow (it...We just did some spanking play out in the snow (it was actually snowing and it was about 25 degrees). We knew we were doing a video that would be posted on SpankingTube so we wanted the spanking to look good. The first attempt though Suzy dove off the knee and into the snow... lol... because it hurt so much. Had to back things off a bit and try again. Still made for a wonderful spanking and it's a great memory. But of course we got some 'you call that a spanking' type comments.<br /><br />What can you do though. There are lots and lots of factors that go into tolerance levels, and almost all spankees seem to wish they could take more and/or take what they get with more 'grace.' Instead of battling against the reality that getting spanked really does hurt... we either just adjust the spanking down a few notches, or accept there is going to be some struggling during the spanking.<br /><br />:)<br />~Todd and Suzy A.S.S.http://americanspankingsociety.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-51896919360675965012013-02-21T15:40:07.176-07:002013-02-21T15:40:07.176-07:00You're definitely not alone in this. I think a...You're definitely not alone in this. I think a lot of sneaky factors come into play regarding tolerance -- your mood, hormone fluctuation, temperature, etc.<br /><br />My tolerance varies as well, annoyingly so. There are times out of the blue where I feel like I can't take anything, much as I want to. I kind of liken it to working out; some days I feel so strong, and then on other days, things I'd done just a week ago feel damn near impossible.<br /><br />And those dense, thuddy paddles ARE hard to take, even on one's best day.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7214002689789881480.post-26921191431400639852013-02-21T08:16:21.039-07:002013-02-21T08:16:21.039-07:00
Lea,
My tolerance is less when I have not been s...<br />Lea,<br /><br />My tolerance is less when I have not been spanked for a long time. I want a long hard spanking, but I have no tolerance.<br /><br />Hug,<br />JoeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com